Dear students,
Every year at this time, I reflect on the path that brought me to where I am now. Like many of you, I am a first-generation college student. My parents, though deeply supportive, did not have the opportunity to pursue higher education. They taught me the value of hard work, perseverance, and the belief that education could open doors to a better future. What they couldn’t provide, however, was a roadmap for navigating the complexities of college life.
Being the first in my family to attend college came with challenges. I remember sitting in my first college class feeling overwhelmed, insecure, and unsure if I belonged. I wrestled with self-doubt, questioned my choices, and often felt the weight of my entire family watching to see if I would succeed. There were moments when balancing everything seemed like more than I could handle. Yet, I ‘kept going’ (reference from last month’s article) and discovered the qualities required to be a successful first-generation student—resilience, determination, resourcefulness, and continued focus on the end goal–graduation.
One characteristic many first-generation students share is a deep sense of purpose. We don’t take the opportunity to attend college for granted. For many of us, the goal is not only a personal achievement, but also creating a legacy that extends beyond ourselves. We aspire to break cycles, uplift our families, and to inspire others in our communities.
Another defining trait is adaptability. As first-generation students, we learn to navigate unfamiliar systems, ask questions, and seek out resources. We figure out financial aid forms, academic schedules, and campus services often without a guide. These experiences cultivate a unique kind of problem-solving ability that serves us well in college and beyond.
Reflecting on my own journey, I realize how important it was to embrace a growth mindset (even though that term wasn’t in mainstream psychology yet.) I didn’t have all the answers, but I was willing to learn and grow. I sought mentors who believed in me, leaned on my friends for support, and worked hard to not let small setbacks (like a bad grade) get the best of me. My path wasn’t perfect, but each step forward brought me closer to my goals.
To all of you who are first-generation students, I want you to know this: you are not alone. The challenges you face are real, and so is your capacity to overcome them. Every late-night study session, every tough decision, and every moment of perseverance is building a future you can be proud of. While you may not see it yet, all of this will be worth it one day and you will fondly look back on this time, as I am now.
Whether you are nearing the end of your degree or just beginning, remember why you started this journey.
The end of the Fall 2024 semester is near, so do your best to finish strong. The ability to gather your strength, focus your thoughts and intentions, and then finish is a skill that will benefit you over and over again in life.
As I look out at our community of learners, I see future leaders, innovators, and change-makers. You are paving the way for others and creating a brighter future not just for yourself but for generations to come.
I wish you all the best in these last couple weeks of the semester.
Brandon